Setting New Standards In Cyber Relating
A Scarlet Letter Services Solution
CyberRelate.com is an online newsletter for any man that connects online. We promote gay male sexuality, as a way of staying healthy and the ability to be a person not a status. Have something to contribute or promote? Please let us know at Strona@rcn.com
CyberRelate
Is a project of Scarlet Letter Services.
Creating sexual health & safety messages for sexually active Gay & Bisexual men
These moments of intoxication when we defy every-thing, when, the anchor raised, we go merrily toward the abyss, with no more thought for the inevitable fall than for the limits given in the beginning, are the only ones when we are completely free of the ground (of laws)...
For the last 15 years I have focused my professional life in an area that many people find uncomfortable and challenging. Sexuality and sex in all its many forms comes with lots of baggage, it doesn’t matter the gender of the person you sleep with or the lifestyle you lead. Assisting someone down a path that explores sex is a healthy and wonderful experience between consenting adults, who are consciously making the choice to engage in some behaviors is a privilege. Too many great people suffer in life due to the ear of being different or being labeled “not normal”.
So I hope some of the things i share in CyberRelate help you down that path too.
Frank
A regular Bud of mine who likes to use the Internet to meet men, shared with me some of his recent thoughts. I found his email so interesting, I thought I would share it as a this months Social Commentary.
- Does toppish mean, top if I have to?
- Why do total tops only show pictures of their butts or for that matter total bottoms show their dick shots only?
- Why do guys that want it to be anonymous and it doesn’t matter what you look like always insist on a face pic?
- Guys who want to do you through a glory hole always want a full head and body shot
- Bareback bottoms that insist on they are HIV- expect only HIV- men to answer their ad, do they know that men lie?
- Do you know that people in general lie online?
- Does DDF mean drug free (but pot is ok) and disease free (don’t have the syph and clap)?
- Does clean mean that they showered?
- If it’s blurred out or not shown, it’s either disgusting or not there.
- The ones looking for a boyfriend and all they show is their dick. Is the person looking for a boyfriend or is his dick looking?
- Someone says they are ready now in their ad, but, when you call they won’t be ready for two hours.
- There are those looking for friends or a workout partner only but all you see is their cock, balls and naked butt.
- Spelling errors – enough said
- “I’m lonely and want to cuddle. Oh, and under 30 only.” They are not that lonely and who goes on a hook up site to cuddle?
- I am discreet, I won’t show a face pic, but send your face pic for a response.
- A lot of us have been online since the mid-1990’s and some guys are still using the same pictures and insisting that you look like your pic.
- What does ‘HIV I don’t know’ mean, I thought there were two status’ + or - ?
- People like to list what they don’t want, they can list what they are looking for, couldn’t they?
- Some guys have to post chastising messages about behavior like – ‘Why is everyone on this site HIV+?’
- And last but not least, trashing a post because you didn’t get an answer boohoo.
